There was a year I thought being a good dad at Christmas meant buying everything . I’m talking the latest toys, all the games, toys in big boxes that would surly make my kids light up. I mean a brotha was spending his last dime  like money was just gonna magically reappear in January. I was stressed. Overthinking. Proud, though. Real proud.Like , yeah… Pops did his thing this year. Then my five-year-old opened her big, beautiful gift. And instead of playing with her barbie dr

This week we’re featuring a guest post from my guy, Dr. Nick Church of Somerset Medical here in Atlanta. If you’ve ever struggled to build habits that stick, Nick breaks down the science behind why and how to finally create routines that support your energy, health, and peace at home. Enjoy. We’ve all made resolutions that faded after a few weeks — to exercise more, eat better, sleep earlier. The truth is, building healthy habits isn’t just about willpower. It’s about working

Some mornings hit different. Not because something’s wrong but because you’re tired of doing everything right  and still not seeing it line up. I’m Sharif Colbert , founder of LifeCoachATL , and I’ve been reflecting on how even when you’re coaching others to stay strong, there are days you have to coach yourself too. I’ve been putting in the work... coaching, creating shirts, renting cars on Turo, staying positive, staying grateful. I’m out here pushing. But lately, the retur

The Weight Men Don’t Talk About Most of us were raised to carry and not to share. We learned early that feelings were “soft,” tears made you weak, and stress was something you worked through, not talked about. So, we carry. We carry pressure, disappointment, and guilt for every moment we feel like we came up short, as dads, husbands, sons, or men. But the problem is, carrying too much weight doesn’t just wear down your shoulders, it shuts down your heart. You stop talking. Yo

I can remember being a kid and hearing things that stuck to my skin for years. “You think you’re grown.” “Stop crying before I give you...

Too many of us cling to old habits and call it “just who I am.” How many times have you heard that? How many times have you said that?...

Becoming a father is one of the most profound experiences a man can have. It brings joy, responsibility, and sometimes challenges that...

One of the things I tell fathers all the time is this: it’s never too late to rebuild your relationship with your kids but you have to be...

I’ve talked to so many men who carry shame and judgment like a backpack full of bricks. Some of us feel ashamed because we don’t fit into...

With the good comes the bad or maybe it’s with the bad comes the good. I talk a lot about who I am today, but I haven’t always been this...

We don’t like to admit it, but sometimes a child’s first bully isn’t a classmate on the playground... it’s their own parent. I’m not...

You ever find yourself fired up about change new goals, better habits, stronger relationships but somehow that fire fizzles out before...

Look, I get it. The last thing most men want to do is sit around and talk about confidence. We’d rather debate football stats, argue...

I’ll be honest—there was a time when I genuinely believed I’d ruined my chance at being a good father. Divorce has a way of putting a...

2020 was a rough year for everybody, but especially my youngest. That kid is a social butterfly through and through. Like her old man, I...

I remember the first time I sat my teenage son JC down to talk about sex. He was probably around 15. I called him in the room, tossed him...

I never had a blueprint for what it meant to be a good father. My biological dad was killed when I was about three years old, and I...

(A blog for dads, by a dad who’s still growing) I used to think that being a dad meant one thing: provide. Just keep the lights on and...

Fatherhood is one of the most important roles a man can take on in his lifetime. It carries immense responsibility and offers a unique...

Fatherhood is a remarkable adventure filled with joy, challenges, and a unique set of responsibilities. Yet, many fathers often feel...